The Relationship Stuff – abuse Archive

Beat Me and I’m Gone

Published on May 14, 2013, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, advice, break-up, codependancy, divorce, dysfunctional, protection, Relationships, Self-esteem, selfworth, sexual abuse, unhealthy.

If you get into a bed and sleep for 3 months straight does that mean you are in a coma? If you get into a relationship and get beat for 3 months straight does that mean you are in a coma? I’m sorry. I love you. This won’t happen again. The lies keep coming and

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Tags: abuse, abusive, attacked, battered, beat, beaten, boundaries, confused, domestic-violence, healthy, hurt, list, pain, Standards

For Better or For Worse

Published on March 7, 2013, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, Adultery, advice, affair, divorce, Husband, infertility, Marriage, Money, sex, wife.

When people think of the vows they will take and then the day comes that they actually recite them, I’m still not sure if most of them quite understand what they are promising God and their mate. You see, the better can get as best as it can and they will stay, but, the worse

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Tags: better, husband, marriage, suffering, vows, wife, worst

3 Day Love

Published on January 24, 2013, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, acceptance, boyfriend, communication, conflict, Courtship, date, dating, love, Relationships.

This is a poem I wrote over 13 years ago. I was talking to myself in this poem because that was a way I’d encouraged myself. I pray it encourages someone else today! Day 1 Conversation was perfect, we talked for a while. The things that he said made my heart smile. I found out

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Tags: ladies, lady, lonely, love, man, single, singleness, wait, waiting

You Can’t Help Who You Love

Published on December 14, 2012, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, love, Relationships.

How many times have we heard this one before? And it’s true, you may not be able to help WHO you love, but you have control over how you love. If a person is no good for you for whatever the reason, you may need to love them from a distance. Mothers included! For some

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Tags: Family, husband, love, parents, toxic

Wait after Waiting

Published on November 26, 2012, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, acceptance, advice, Relationships.

Are you hurting today as a result of a failed or troubled relationship? Ignoring that pain won’t make it go away, neglecting yourself can’t cause it to fade, and self-medicating with unhealthy things isn’t going to work. If you’ve already prayed, if you’ve already cried, if you’ve already hoped and believed without anything to show for

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Tags: cry, Lord, pain, wait, waiting, weep, weeping

LOOKING OUT FOR THE KIDS

Published on November 12, 2011, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, Parenthood.

HEY, I DON’T CARE HOW I LOOK ANYMORE IN YOUR EYES! I ‘M A CHILDS ADVOCATE. I SPEAK UP FOR THEM BECAUSE THEY CAN’T, WON’T, DON’T KNOW HOW TO, OR WHAT EVER THE CASE MAY BE. IN DOING SO SOME ADULTS JUMP DOWN MY NECK WITH THEIR “RAH RAH”, AND HERE IS AN EXAMPLE OF

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Tags: ADVOCATE, child, Family

Reckless Parent

Published on November 1, 2011, by therelationshipstuff in abuse, communication, Emotional, love, Parenthood, Relationships, understanding, unhealthy.

The other day I witnessed a mother publicly out and embarrass her grown daughter. She was telling her about herself, her issues and like it was. She had all types of remarks that made the woman feel less than. She lashed out and went on and on and seemed to have no regard for the

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Tags: child, Family, parent, parenting, parents, verbal

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