How do you determine what you want and if what you want is best for you as it relates to love? Do you find that the people you allow in your space and heart keep ending up being THE WRONG ONE? Being self-aware is a very important part of this process. If someone ask you to change something about yourself you’ll know if it’s something you need to adjust or not. If you ask me to be more giving but I believe I do well in that area and that’s not something I struggle with, I’ll know the persons motivation behind asking me to change is self seeking and not for my betterment. Being self-aware is having an accurate assessment of ones self. It takes time to develop but it can be achieved and should always have an open door to new opinions. Because we grow and change over time, we should always be in a constant state of knowing who we are and who we are not. In doing so we can spend 1 hour in a conversation with someone and know that they are clearly not the one. Sometimes it may take a little longer, but not much. So if you keep hooking up with duds and your heart desires a firecracker that will reach the sky, at some point you have to look inward and make the necessary changes to give your heart what it truly desires; REAL~TRUE LOVE!