Hello, and welcome to “The Truth About Marrying Bad Sex Series.” Below there are scenarios based on true stories, yet, the names have been changed to protect people’s privacy. Please read into them and come out with something. All I ask as that you can be open-minded and receptive to these realities.
Larry and Yolanda met at her place of business, which also happened to be a Gentlemen’s club. Larry was amused by Yolanda and how she could gain every mans attention when she mounted the stage. Despite his fears of being turned down by women who are out of his league, he asked her out. Yolanda said yes and on went Larry’s mission to win her over and clean her up just for him. After two very over the top sexual experiences, Larry asked Yolanda to marry him and give up exotic dancing. He promised to take care of her and that she’d never have to want for anything. During their 2 over the top sexual experiences, Yolanda insisted on oral and annul sex only . She said she wouldn’t allow it any other way unless she was married because she was too afraid of becoming pregnant. After they were married Larry had sex with Yolanda traditionally for the first time, yet, Larry was unable to enjoy sex with his new wife because she had been so sexed out that her walls were shattered and she constantly made mistakes calling him other guys names. Yolanda was emotionally damaged by her past and had no clue how to begin to heal.
Mike and Liara meet at church. After a few years of working on ministry togethe,r Mike asked Liara out. Mike had a fear of settling down with a woman and not being pleased sexually, so he begged Liara to give in to his needs, (insecurities). Liara laid down her rules and boundaries in fear that she would lose Mike, but she was also deathly afraid of sinning against God.
Although Liara was there in the sexual encounter physically, emotionally she had tapped out. Mike experienced one of the worst sexual encounters he’d ever had in his life and he broke it off with Liara. She vowed to God never to give up so much with out the promise of marriage and remained celibate. Liara eventually married a wonder man named Jermaine and they have the best sex ever throughout their marriage, with all the bells and whistles. She becomes a wonderful admired wife and enjoys a great abundant life.
Virgil and Heather met at college. They had always seen each other around campus but during their junior year they became very close friends. By senior year they had became a couple and they did everything together. They partied together, they studied together, and experienced sex for the first time together.
After graduation, Virgil and Heather got married and started a family right away. Everyone loved and admired their relationship, they were the ideal couple.
Eight years down the line and three kids later, Virgil is suddenly diagnosed with an illness that causes him to be paralyzed from his neck down. He can neither feel nor move.
The best sex of Heather’s life has just turned into no sex for the rest of her or Virgil’s life. Heather is young, she has needs, and she is so confused as to why this is happening to her when she did everything the right way.
This concludes the 1st part of “The Truth About Marrying Bad Sex Series.”